Kick, Swim, Kick! 4 January, 2009 at 8:08 pm

So, yesterday when I took DK swimming, I was carrying him to the deeper end where we could paddle around a bit, and I was holding him on the water.

And I looked over and realized suddenly that he was kicking his legs under the water like we keep telling him to do !!!

Then today when we were going to the gym, kiir asked him if we were going to kick kick kick, and he starts kicking his legs :o Of course, I was carrying him, so basically he just kept kicking me in the stomach ..

What to eat when you’re not eating 3 January, 2009 at 8:44 pm

Or: I’m a toddler!

So, DK hasn’t been interested in eating much the last two days. I mean, other than he tried to eat a can of vaseline last night, he tried to eat a bag of screws we were buying this morning. And various things like that :o

He threw his rice on the floor last night at my folks. Then threw a second plate later. HE tossed his Mac&Cheese at lunch. Then at dinner. He threw his snacks around. Not to say he didn’t eat yesterday, just that in comparison to his massive intake the last couple months, he didn’t eat much.

Well, since we got back from swimming (incidentally, he tried to drink the pool, guess he was thirsty?) he’s had three round-cheese, a mozerella stick, two bowls of blueberries, and now a bag of freeze dried apple slices.

Aparently it wasn’t that he wasn’t hungry. He just wanted to go swimming more!

Splashing in the Shower at 8:41 pm

So, it’s important to know that DK hates hates hates getting water on his head and down into his eyes. He is seriously opposed to it. When we go swimming we have to hold him forcefully while we rinse out his hair after.

And washing his hair has become an endurance battle, and frankly I’ve just accepted that washing his hair ends up with wet floors and me needing a new shirt. He’ll hang his head over the side of the tub so that, in order to pour water into his hair, you’re basically pouring it on the floor. Beyond that, he almost never raises his head, so there’s no chance of pouring it down the back to keep it out of his eyes. And if I make him stand, he’ll grab me and bury his head in my chest. Meaning I get soaked (and the floor still gets wet) in the process.

Anyway, today before swimming, we waited a bit and jumped in the shower before getting in the pool, because I can never remember if you’re supposed to do that or not because it was always rather hit or miss when I was a kid. Some places required it, some places didn’t care. Some places required it AND didn’t care. But I decided to hit it today, and he went BALLISTIC as soon as water started hitting him.

Then we played in the pool, yadda yadda yadda. Afterwards in the family dressing room, I turned on the shower so we could rinse off and he was standing off to the side when I started. Imagine my surprise when I turned it on and found out he was right in the spray :o It has a high/low slider, and it was all the way at the bottom, so it wasn’t spraying where he anticipated :o He actually didn’t get as upset as I thought, but I grabbed him pretty quickly and soothed him. I tried to get stuff ready and then carried him kicking and screaming into the shower, rinsed him off quickly and decided to forgo washing his hair, because I wasn’t sure I was up to fighting that fight. Turned it off, and while I started trying to dry off a bit, he went back and started pointing and crying … so I turned the shower back on …

He splashed and played and had a hell of a fun time while I dried and dressed. He threw a huge fit when I turned it off again and started trying to get him ready to go. Squirming, screaming, kicking, flailing … Apparently he likes the shower fine as long as he can come and go as he likes :o

Tired but not sleepy! at 11:48 am

So, DK has been being tired but not sleepy the last few days. As in last night he was exhausted but completely unwilling to lay down to sleep :/

This morning we went to gymboree and actually hit the level 4 and followed with the level 5, figuring maybe if he runs down a bit he’ll be able to sleep more readily. He made it a little over halfway through the second class before deciding he was done and wanted to go. Stopped to get gas on the way home, and he was waving at the attendant out hte back window and happy.

By the time I got home he was quiet and not visibly tossing around any. But when I craned around in the seat I could see him blinking so I brought him inside. We’re doing lunch now :o

I was sure he’d fall asleep on the way home :/ And I swear he was /almost/ there. But not quite. Didnt have any real errands to run, though, so I couldn’t really just keep driving. Well, I could, but I figured I’d feed him an’ stuff.

late to the party 28 December, 2008 at 9:52 pm

So I was looking up some friends from college and decided to take the plunge and signed up on linkedin.com … then I noticed that some of them were on facebook instead, so i signed up there too

i might be a little late to the party :o

Too Much TV! at 6:36 pm

So, before DK was born, we were all intending to not let him watch any TV until he was at least two. But we had decided that I could still play on the game consoles with him around and that wouldn’t count (yeah yeah, but it was limited at least)

But he’s been getting to watch a little bit most of the summer, and when Kiir got pregnant and was exhausted a bunch he got to watch more. When we went to India, we figured we’d wean him off. What with there not being any TV for two weeks. Then he kept waking up at 2am and I kept handing him the iPod to watch tigger & pooh off itunes. Meaning he was probably actually getting MORE tv in India than at home.

Today we decided he wouldn’t watch ANY tv until after nap. Including games. So I played with him on the floor (although a lot of that seemed to be me playing with his toys while he wandered around). Then we ran out for an errand, ate lunch, and he went up for nap. And wanted nothing to do with it. So we went to the gym for swimming and he fell asleep in the car, so I sat with him while he napped again, and we went a few hours later after napping. Woke him up for it, actually. Then home and he finally got to watch something about 5:45 when I turned on the Wii to load up a website for him to click on like he does with Kiir’s second computer. Or makes her click on.

Then he escaped out to the main menu and was just watching that, so I turned it off and gave him his dinner :o I think we’re going to be watching SOMETHING after dinner. Kiir’s playing one of her new xmas games now, for instance

Swimming! 27 December, 2008 at 7:57 pm

So on the 24th we went ahead and punched the button for the fitness membersip at lifetime. It’s a little more per month than we wanted, but we just liked it so much better than the other option that we were willing to go for it. We went back to look at the kids center and the guy we talked to initially was busy with another customer, so his manager (we think) took us and showed us around. And frankly we liked him WAAAY better. If he’d been our initial contact, we might have signed up the first time :o

But today we decided to take DK swimming. B/c he was throwing a fit over not being allowed to play with the TV and we felt that that was a sign he needed to do something else. We got there and got changed and headed out to the pool. We noticed that there weren’t any kids in the pool, really, but we didn’t see anything that suggested adult swim or anything so we figured maybe it’s coincidetal. We started with DK in the shallow end, and then kiir walked him out further and that was when the lifeguard told us that it was adult swim. So DK took my hand and walked me around the outside of the pool so I could ask the lifeguard how long adult swim was. Because if it was going to be another 20 minutes or something, we’d bail out and make a note that 6pm — not the time to go swimming. Turns out it’s 15minutes at 2 4 and 6, and by the time we got back to mommy it was free swim again yay!

DK swam back and forth (as in we passed him and he was generally unsupported for only a second or so) and he kicked his legs a bunch to move and such. Did that for about 30-40 minutes before we headed out. Couldn’t find any towels, even though everyone had them …. probably should have just asked someone else, because obviously they knew where to find them and we didn’t :o But we’d brought a towel from home in case and I found one unused towel sitting in the family locker room so we made it through.

DK swallowed plenty of chlorinated water though :/ oops. But he was having a grand ol’ time, and I’m good with that!

CPSIA Cost Breakdown 23 December, 2008 at 11:54 pm

So, here’s a breakdown from Happy Panda who actually makes clothing and thus needs this research (whereas we’ve never made it reasonably past theoretical yet)

CPSIA Testing Research & Price Breakdown

My point is MIA at 11:42 pm

So, the big post about cpsia? Yeah, I posted that without “finishing” it, but now I can’t remember what else I wanted to add offhand :o

I sent the form letter from Handmade Toy Alliance to all three critters, although I have my doubts that it will do anything because it’s a reactionary legislation and if they change it or anyone gets seen voting “against” it, they’re gonna get railed …

Oh, I did get a form-response from one of the critters though:

Thank you for contacting me to express your concerns about the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act of 2008. I appreciate hearing from you and welcome the opportunity to respond.

The Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) is the chief agency responsible for protecting the public from consumer products that present unreasonable risks of serious injury or death. The failure of the Commission to properly inspect toys and other products entering our country has understandably frightened many parents and other consumers. These incidents, which have resulted in children and others being exposed to lead paint and other dangerous materials, are the consequence of the CPSC operating without sufficient resources or authority to inspect and regulate consumer products.

For these reasons I voted in favor of H.R. 4040, the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act of 2008, which requires children’s products to undergo independent third-party testing and expands civil and criminal penalties for children’s products that contain lead. It also provides additional resources to the CPSC in order to expedite recalls and enhance its regulatory authority. This legislation was signed into law on August 14, 2008. However, as the rulemaking process to implement this new law goes forward at CPSC, I will be sure to keep your views in mind.

Again, thank you for letting me know your thoughts on this issue. Please do not hesitate to contact me further about this or any other matter.

I’m not quite sure he got the part where I am, basically, AGAINST it :o The message sounds like he might realize that I’m not cheering for the legislation, though, so maybe there’s hope. OTOH, if the problem is that the CPSC didn’t have the resources it needed, how does increasing the safety requirements and making people pay a third party resolve that? I mean, now it’s just offloading the responsibility. How about actually increasing the resources? :o

CPSIA and Us 22 December, 2008 at 11:48 pm

Last year, around this time actually I s’pose, was all the recalls and etc about toys made with high levels of lead. magic sand that turned into ghp when ingested. yadda yadda yadda. The CPSC (Consumer Product Safety Commission) was getting railed on because they weren’t catching most of these things, rather either the companies were or someone was getting ill or dieing and the resultant investigation was finding WOAH! This kids toy turns out is TOXIC!

Part of the problem was that the CPSC had like 1 or 2 people testing kids toys. Which meant they didn’t even vaguely get to everything. That started coming to light later, and is more of an excuse than a defense. But I can see their problem, if they don’t get the funding they don’t get the funding and they have to cut corners somewhere. So blame needs to pass up the chain to whoever can provide the funding.

Then apparently Congress decided to get into the act. Because, THE CHILDREN! OMG! The horrors! I can DO something about this! What should we do? Raise penalty fines? Increase CPSC funding? do like we did for the securities and mortgage companies, slap someone on the wrist, give them money to fix their problems, and make them promise to never never EVER do it again? Write new legislation that throws the biggest net we can find, requiring tests and independent certification? no, that would be ridiculous. who would pay for all that new testing?

Oh, we could make the companies pay for it! that way we don’t have to come up with any more money! EXCELLENT! If you know children, your products must be TESTED by INDEPENDENT LABS who will charge (reasonable? too harsh?) money! We don’t want to get into the business of regulating money, though, so we’ll let them decide what to charge. We’re sure they wouldn’t use a government mandate and complex (but not rigorous) certification procedures as an open license to commit robbery.

Bitter much? Yeah :o So the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act (CPSIA) outlines various things that cannot be in products that kids can “reasonably put in their mouth.” Of course, if you have a toddler, you understand that kids can “reasonably” put the freakin’ refrigerator in their mouth, yaknow? But congress critters, they don’t have time to raise their own kids. The ones who bring them to DC with them put them in expensive private or even boarding schools, because lets face it. Mommy and Daddy are on capitol hill at all hours doing important work. The ones who’s families stay in Des Moines, well, obviously we’re not going to be seeing them every night.

The legislation is a big long document full of legislative branch legal jargon. So a lot of what I know is from the summaries I’ve seen elsewhere. Which, admittedly, are frequently on the handmade toy sites, etsy, and what kiir reads me from her cloth diaper and waldorf boards. But, generally, what I’ve gotten is the following:

  1. Companies must have their products tested, by third party independent certified labs, and documented as being lead, pthalate, and whatever else, free.
  2. The third party labs are charging on the order of 4000$US for such tests
  3. EACH toy or item must be tested. I imagine the toy kitchen can be sent as a single test and get the toy utensils it comes with. But if you sell the kitchen in green and red, that might be two tests. If you sell two kitchens (say one has an icebox, the other doesn’t), that IS two tests.
  4. You have to have certified resources used to manufacture, and you must be able to prove the trail. I’m not sure about this part, though, since it seems like it would be alternative to actual testing, assuming you could talk your suppliers into it of course. And why they’d care, I have no idea.

Thats what I’ve identified so far. What does this mean? Well, if you’re Hasbro, not much. Seriously, you sell 5000 bimbo beach cars this xmas season. That’s 1$ apiece on the price for the CPSIA lab test. Which you’ll just tack onto the MSRP as 2$ and BAM! you just made a profit off the testing!

But if you’re one of the etsy shops we like to buy handmade wood toys for DK from? Say, the shop we’ve bought two caterpillars, two car carriers, three cars, and a tow truck from? Those were ~30$ a pop I think. But, at best, that would be 16k in testing. Sure he sells a bunch of those items. But, hand carved by one guy? I think he sells maybe a dozen of each in a year? Lets say 2-dozen. That only raises the price from 30$ to 110$. oh, wait, at 110$ I wouldn’t have bought so much. So 150$. Well, now I might not have bought anything. Because DK doesn’t need 150$ toys!

Then things get funky weird. DK’s cloth diapers? Well, he CAN put them in his mouth .. BAM! 4000$ for testing! And I’m guessing that bamboo/velour/un-lined, snaps/velcro, died/undied would count as separate. And to be fair, we’ve gotten everything but velcro from his “normal” place at this point. That is, minimum 3 types. But combinatoric would probably be in play. Which means 3x2x2 … 12 options. 50k she’d spend on testing. ASSUMING that she could test each type once and be done with it. The diapers are, currently, 5-10$ apiece IIRC. We’ve bought 3-dozen, getting a fourth done smaller for baby girl now. I think she sells two slots a month, and old customers can always get in. So say she does 100 diapers a month. Thats 1200 in the year. Which, if the certification was annual, would add 40$ to each diaper (I think I did that math right). Sure, if it’s a permanent cert (assuming she doesn’t change dye or anything) (I would imagine that lots would need to be checked, since a new dye might have … but leaving that off) she could add a buck to each diaper and get her money back in … 40 years? 5 bucks and 8 years. Of course, in the meantime, she had to pop that 50k from somewhere and she doesn’t have huge pockets of cash like, say, Mattel. She might notice the extra 50k on her mortgage …

One thing that apparently got missed in the panic mode is that virtually all (all maybe?) of the issues came from the multinationals that outsourced their production to China for just pennies a day … The plants in the US weren’t producing these things. The European sources already have as strict, or stricter, requirements in place. The handmade craft places are, well, doing it by hand and probably not mixing the GHP and Arsenic with their Yellow #7.

Actually, at least one European company is pulling out of the US market because the extra fee for testing, they’re just not interested in it since they can already satisfy the stricter EU regs, they’re confident that they ALSO don’t have higher amounts to trigger these tests. But there’s no provision for that. No reciprocity.

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